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ok. this is long. but please read it the whole way through. i do plan on going to a doctor as soon as i have some money. but i don't have health care so it will just have to wait until i have the funds. anyway. my ex fiance and myself have been sexually involved since we broke up (on occasions) we've only been with each other and understand the consequences of unprotected sex. and yes i am grown. i just have a question so i can better direct my research and have questions for my doctor. we use the withdrawl method, and it has been working for us (sometimes, i have been pregnant before, but unfortunately loss the babies due to an incompetent cervix which i was diagnosed with after our last loss) anyway here are the facts, my period usually comes on the 9th, and the last one i had was on the 9th of september. we were together on october 2nd and he pulled out late, it was just a second or two late, but it was still late. i told him that i would get online and check when i might have

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IF you're an adult, you should know that the withdrawl method is ridiculous. Try using some real birth control, and finish your question so we have something to answer.

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u could be pregnant. u should do the home pregnancy test. u can even buy it from a dollar store. so u don't actually have to have insurance for that.
okay if your last period started on sept. 9 and you are pretty regular then you were fertile from the 19th through 29th and you should be able to tell if you are pregnant or not by now
Considering that it is 10/19, I think you are pregnant... Because that it really late.
I never knew when I got pregnant; my husband and I used condoms. But the nurse told me that because we only wear the condom before he has his orgasm, we could have conceived from the pre-ejaculation. Something to think about.

Go to DSHS (or whoever the government agency for welfare is in your state) for insurance. If you qualify (and you probably will) they'll give you immediate 100% coverage. Then pick your doctor that accepts the insurance. If you have an incompetent cervix, he may want to sew it closed temporarily. I saw it on a documentary.
Yes, you could be pregnant. You can go to the Health Dept. for a check up and everything free of cost. I did not have insurance with my first child and had to go. I was treated well by almost everyone there. Only one nurse had a better than you attitude.

The withdrawal method worked for 5 yrs for me but now baby # 3 is on the way. Don't count on this to work!

Good resources for pregnancy information

babycenter.com and babyzone.com
you are an adult so you should know that the pull out method DOES NOT work. There is something called pre ejaculation and you CAN get pregnant from that.
check out www.mymonthlycycles.com it really helped me figure things out...by the way, you dont have to have insurance to get preg. tests and medical care.. most health depts will do them for free through family planning and family planning will help with so much more too, they help set up dr. appts and everything...also, look in your local phone book under PREGNANCY COUSELING or PREGNANCY RESOURCES make some phone calls and see if they can help with testing you and such... Its possible that you are just stressed about the whole thing and you are late...i was TRYING to get preggers and was too stressed and made my period late, it was late a whole 4weeks.YES, a whole month late...but dont just sit around and see if you are LATe..you can even go to the dollar tree or dollar store and buy the cheapy preg. test that is exactly the same test that we(RN at the health dept. ) use..I work at the health dept. and we get so many young girls that didnt eve know about the stuff we can help with...anyways, like i was saying TAKE A TEST ASAP... especially if you had probs. with the last pregnancy.. GOOD LUCK TO YOU! keep us posted!
you can get false negatives from pregnancies tests. if you did the urine test its a possibility that you got a false negative. and if the test was done early it may not have picked up on it. with all three of my pregnancies my tests didn't show positive until i was at least five weeks along. and if you aren't pregnant and still don't have your cycle you should see a doc cause you could have something serious going on and you don't even know it. and you can also go to your local health department for help they usually only ask for a donation not a payment.